I think alloaros can actually be really similar to non-sam aros at times
like, I don’t label my sexual attraction bc I don’t want to give anyone a reason / excuse to call me anything but aro. I’m not bi or gay or anything else. I am aro. if you need further determiner, then I am alloaro.
in a similar way, some people identify as non-sam bc they don’t want to give others a chance to slight their aro identity for any other allosexual or asexual label. they are aro.
I think that’s part of why I feel a lot of solidarity with non-sam aros. lots of us are simply trying to protect our aro label.
**note: I acknowledge that some alloaros do label their sexual attraction more specifically, and some non-sam aros have sub-labels that they use personally. this post just focuses on a different subset of arospecs.